We read a passage from the Mother’s writings on on things being fated.
QUESTION OF A DISCIPLE: Can it be said in justification of one’s past that whatever has happened in one’s life had to happen? [CWM 3:27]
THE MOTHER: Obviously, what has happened had to happen; it would not have been, if it had not been intended. Even the mistakes that we have committed and the adversities that fell upon us had to be, because there was some necessity in them, some utility for our lives. But in truth these things cannot be explained mentally and should not be. For all that happened was necessary, not for any mental reason, but to lead us to something beyond what the mind imagines. But is there any need to explain after all? The whole universe explains everything at every moment and a particular thing happens because the whole universe is what it is. But this does not mean that we are bound over to a blind acquiescence in Nature’s inexorable law. You can accept the past as a settled fact and perceive the necessity in it, and still you can use the experience it gave you to build up the power consciously to guide and shape your present and your future.
About Savitri | B1C3-05 Progress of Man Towards Divine Superhumanity (pp.26-27)