According to the action of the Grace, the difficulties having happened, the Grace change them in means of greater results. That is the attitude to be taken towards life as it is, and it will allow the Grace to give Its maximum of help and result.
In Yoga, all feelings are accepted, but purified by spiritual consciousness. Ascetic Yoga aims to dissolve emotions, leaving only supreme aspiration. Emotional being transforms by turning towards the Divine.
About Savitri | B1C1-15 Action of the Grace (pp.7-8)